So today I want to talk about this topic. About man. I've been experimenting about this for awhile and I finally figured out why.
Basically, I'm not really experience in a relationship, that's why I think I tend to make this kind of mistakes when I got into relationship.
So, what it is?
I figured it as emotional attraction. (its my hypothesis)
The pattern is same, when you both in love, he confess, you accept. You confess, he pulls away.
It's because man think differently than woman. And man are from Mars, women are from Venus. That's reflect how man and woman react to the same think differently.
Well, I give you some visual point. Try imagine that man are South pole of the earth. And women are North pole of the earth. It obviously have different magnetic pole energy right?
When the South pole (man) attract the North pole (women) it become closer. After a while then the North pole (women) attract again the South pole (man) try to close it more. Unfortunately it pulls away. Its because too close means it lose the balance. The center of the earth will be force to close together making it too suffocated and imbalance. Most mistakes than women make when this happen, she will become paranoid, try to think why, and what happen. So she try to pull him closer, which finally push him further.
It's just like science and nature. Other than the example I'm using above, is magnet. Think about this, when magnetic attraction is just okay, its pulls together. But when its too close and the attraction of the magnet is too much, it will repels away. Now you get it right?
If you love him, just do nothing. Don't try to ask him why he pulls away. Just ignore him. Because its what man like to do. Don't panic or thinking you are wrong. It's just, natural in the relationship.
It's because it his problem, not yours. You don't know everything so stop speculate on your own.
It's because it his problem, not yours. You don't know everything so stop speculate on your own.
Value yourself in the meantime. Bring your mind and heart closer to Allah S.W.T. It's more safer think to do then thinking about other negative vibes that only will bring you down and depressed.
So now just wait. If he come back, means that he really care about you. While if the result are different, its mean that he just not worthy for you. He's not into you so you can just walk away. Move on might be the best thing to do. Don't waste your time with the man who not appreciate you for who you are (seriously, even you are emotional freak or bad-ass because every women is unique!).
Conclusion is, be confident in yourself.
Ignore negative vibes.
Love yourself.
I'm just a Scientist,
Fiqa Nsz.
