Hi readers, I come again to write something that might be wondering your inner side (basically women) yeah because it is about guy. This time, I want to write about relationship advice.
Okay, pertama sekali, korang semua pernah bercinta?
I mean, pernah jatuh cinta kat lelaki?
Or, get into relationship with guy?
So. what's the end of your love story?
Success? or Failure?
If success, go on, you don't need to read this post. If failure? maybe you need to read some of my advice.
Norma manusia itu saling mencintai. Pelik lah kalau kata korang yang perempuan tak pernah suka kat lelaki (tapi kalau golongan lain itu, lain cerita lah).
Jatuh cinta itu normal, tetapi bila mana korang dalam hubungan, boleh ke korang kekalkan momentum perasaan suka sama suka itu sentiasa?
Lagi-lagi cinta jarak jauh.
Korang cuma dapat contact melalui telefon.
In some point, hubungan korang berakhir macam itu saja.
Pernah tak imbas kembali, waktu awal-awal kenal dulu, uish, kemain lagi boyfriend aku ni buat pick up line untuk ngorat kau. Bila dah lama-lama, hambar. At last, tak kemana pun.
So based on my personal experience, or research (lol I really did some research on guy), it's not difficult to understand man.
Why?
Because man are human too. Women are human being. So it reflected each other. SIMPLE.
Macam ni, korang nak dihormati? Same thing with man, diorang pun nak dihormati juga.
Korang nak rasa dicintai, dipujuk? Gosh, it same thing with man.
Pernah tak korang rasa rimas bila boyfriend korang spam message bertubi2 and macam gedik needy macam tu bila korang busy? Lol, same with man la.
Sebab tu la, korang often salahkan lelaki bila dia cheat dengan perempuan lain.
Kau kata aku dah bagi attention banyak kot kat dia, kejar dia tapi sampai hati dia buat macam ni (sobs sobs lol).
Korang needy.
He see you as needy. He will become boring of you. He will think at some point that you are not in his future, because you are selfish.
Well, this is true. Some things that I just like another women do, being needy and crave for attention when you got into relationship. In some point, it will just become annoying.
Tapi kan, korang nak tahu macam mana nak atasi masalah needy korang tu?
Senang. Korang jadi needy kat Allah.
Banyakkan bercinta dan mengadu kat Allah.
InsyaAllah, kau akan jadi cool habis.
InsyaAllah, kau rasa bahagia.
Nak tahu sebab apa?
Sebab Allah itu tuhan kita. Yang menciptakan kita.
And lelaki dan perempuan itu sama2 manusia.
See that?
Masih tak paham?
Macamni lah, kau manusia, lepastu lelaki tu manusia. Kau ada perasaan, dia pun ada perasaan.
Well, kau manusia pun kadang-kadang tak paham perasaan dan perangai kau, lagi nak paham orang lain?
Hampeh la. memang hambar lah. Sebab tak ada kesefahaman tu.
Tapi, lain citer bila kau serahkan cinta kau kat Allah. Allah yang cipta kau, kau sendiri yang tak paham diri sendiri (tapi acah2 paham), Allah paham segalanya tentang kau.
Believe me, bila kau start percayakan Allah dari segala hal, kau akan perolehi apa yang kau nak selama ini.
Sebab Allah yang pegang semua hati manusia.
Sebab Allah pencipta hati.
So, trust Allah, thus you will accept his flaws, and also yours.
You will not afraid of losing him, because if he worth it, he will never walk away.
(so in conclusion, this advice basically not pin point to the relationship before marriage only kayyy, its also after marriage, which are the main thing, because marriage is the relationship that Allah love. So kalau ada yang bercinta sebelum kahwin tu, kalau dah mampu, cepat2 lah bernikah. Serious cakap, bercinta sebelum nikah dapat buat apa je, only verbal talk je, takde physical movement or attraction, so serious hambar dan bosan haha).
Yang sedang rajin menulis tentang cinta dan hati,
Fiqa Nsz
